In my 20 years working with parents of kids with a history of trauma or adoption

LYING is consistently one of the most common and most frustration behaviors.

Almost all parents really hate lying! It feels so personal and disrespectful.

Understanding behavior does not mean excusing or ignoring behavior.

Understanding behavior means we can focus on energy on solving the real problem is instead of using punishments and consequences that aren’t working

This infographic is like having me, Robyn, whispering into your ear why kids lie and what you can do about it.