A 2.5 Day Experiential Workshop for Helpers & Healers
The most important tool
you bring to your clients isn’t found in your clinical applications tool box.
The most important tool you bring to your clients is YOU.
Our clients, patients and students arrive with one goal:
To feel better.
Something is causing enough stress in their lives that they are calling uncle,
throwing up the white flag,
and saying ‘please help me.’
You have a lot of great tools.
Tools that really help people!
Having a toolbox full of tools to draw from when working with suffering people is really helpful.
But ultimately our clients don’t feel better when you give them the perfect tool.
Clients feel better when they feel felt.
We’ve known for a long time
that the relationship
is the most important predictor of positive client change.
Being present with clients is the most powerful tool that amplifies all the other tools you already have.
But very rarely does anyone actually define relationship.
How can we be deliberate and intentional about cultivating resonance, relationship, and presence if we aren’t sure what those things are?
Or what they feel like?
Relational Resonance
The mutual influence of interacting systems on each other that allows two or more entities to become a part of one functional whole.
~Dan Siegel, MD
Joining with another without losing oneself in the other (merging) or remaining too separate (not touching).
~Robyn Gobbel
Hey there! I’m Robyn!
I’m a therapist, educator, trainer, consultant, and now- author!
I’m a little obsessed with studying the relational brain and then teaching everyone who will listen alllllllll about it.
Understanding what’s underneath behavior has changed everything- at work and at home.
I started studying relational neuroscience in 2011, including:
- Hundreds (thousands?!) of hours of reading and personal study
- Mindsight Institute with Dan Siegel, MD
- IPNB Immersion with Bonnie Badenoch, PhD
- In-depth consultation with Bonnie Badenoch PhD and Juliane Taylor Shore LPC-S, LMFT-S of IPNB Austin
and many, many more (1000 hours!) of trainings and study
I previously taught the Science of IPNB in the Foundations of IPNB Post-Grad Certificate program at Portland Community College
and served on the Global Association for IPNB (GAINS) Board of Directors.
Relational Neuroscience is at the heart of everything I do.
Founder & Creator of:
- The Baffling Behavior Trianing Institute
- Being With: Professional Immersion Program- a year-long neuroscience based certificate program for professionals who work with parents
- The Club- a virtual community for parents of kids with big, baffling behaviors
- The Baffling Behavior Show podcast
Author of:
- Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors: Brain-Body-Sensory Strategies that Really Work- my USA Today Best Selling Book for Parents and endorsed by Stephen Porges, PhD and Tina Payne Bryson, PhD
- Chapter on Interpersonal Neurobiology in The Handbook of Complex Trauma and Dissociation in Children (edited by Ana Gomez and Jillian Hosey)
To bring our authentic & regulated selves into our work
we need these 3 things
1 ~ An understanding of the neurobiology of being human
both ourselves and our clients
2 ~ A toolbox full of tools
that emerge from the resonant in-between space
3 ~ A deep connection to ourselves
& strong energetic boundaries
In this highly experiential training
you’ll have the opporuntunity for self- exploration through journaling & non-dominant hand drawing.
No art experience is needed. All humans are creative! You can use the supplies offered- or not. You’ll choose. There’s not right or wrong.
This two and a half day event
will excite your geeky brain science loving parts, deep diving into things like
polyvagal theory, Interpersonal Neurobiology, and memory reconsolidation theory.
But even better than that
throughout our 2.5 days together you’ll experience
the same felt sense of safety & connection that you want to offer your clients.
Your brain will learn lots, but your body will learn more.
Here’s what you can expect!
We’ll move in out and of
full group lecture & discussion
small group connection
individual experiences of self-exploration through non-dominant hand drawings and journaling
We’ll prioritize felt safety by
slowing down
consistently reassessing consent
welcoming all parts of you
…well unless it’s a part that’s negatively impactinging someone else’s experience, like throwing spit balls
ALL THE DETAILS YOU NEED