Ginger Healy is the Program Director for the Attachment and Trauma Network, co-host of the Regulated and Relational podcast, and author of Regulation and Co-Regulation: Accessible Neuroscience that Brings Calm into the Classroom. Ginger’s personal experiences as a mom and a social worker have shaped her approach to aiding families and children dealing with trauma and attachment issues. Her narrative gives a fresh perspective on building resilience in traumatized children.

Ginger’s life and work have been instrumental in the evolution of the Attachment and Trauma Network, a resource-rich organization offering invaluable services to families navigating childhood trauma. Understanding the power dynamics in trauma work, the significance of presence as a parent, and transitioning from traditional behavior plans to focusing on a child’s nervous system are just a few of the key topics covered.

Creating Safe Spaces

Creating safe spaces for children to heal, learn, and grow is critical. The role of adults in this process is underscored throughout the episode. Ginger takes us on a fascinating journey, highlighting the importance of a secure environment for a child’s recovery from trauma.

The Importance of Belonging

The discussion also hones in on practical strategies for educators and parents, exploring the power of buffer relationships in building resilience in children. The idea of ‘belonging’ is discussed as an essential component of a child’s well-being. Resources developed by the Attachment and Trauma Network to support educators in their challenging roles are also outlined.

Resources for Educators and Caregivers

As the conversation transitions into the resources offered by the Attachment and Trauma Network, the focus is on providing support to both educators and parents. The organization offers a plethora of resources, including professional development, webinars, and conferences. The network is committed to making resources accessible and free, which is integral in fostering an environment that encourages growth and healing.

Relationship is Everything

Lastly, the importance of improving teacher-student relationships is discussed. It emphasizes the need for educators to create a safe and conducive environment for students, especially those grappling with trauma. By making a paradigm shift in managing classroom behaviors and focusing on the child’s nervous system, educators can make a significant impact on a child’s learning and healing process. The practical strategies and resources highlighted throughout the episode underscore the invaluable work of the Attachment and Trauma Network in supporting educators and parents.

Resources Mentioned on the Podcast

Regulation and Co-Regulation: Accessible Neuroscience that Brings Calm into the Classroom

The Attachment & Trauma Network

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What if I told you that there’s a revolutionary approach to parenting that’s shifting the traditional power dynamics and nurturing stronger relationships of trust and understanding? My latest conversation with Amanda Deakman, author of the groundbreaking book “Low Demand Parenting”, explores this very concept. Together, we tread into the challenging terrain of parenting children with highly sensitive nervous systems, sharing insightful strategies and breakthrough research work of Ross Green, Mona Delahooke, and Stuart Shanker.

What is Low Demand Parenting

We dive deep into the core ideas of Low Demand Parenting, discussing how to reshape the conventional power structures in parent-child relationships. We explore the concept of Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA), revealing a new perspective on children’s behavioral traits that demand conscious parenting. As we navigate through this enlightening conversation, we also address the trauma of parenting children with complex needs and stress the importance of a comprehensive support system for parents.

Post-Meltdown Plan for Parents’

As we wrap up our riveting exchange, Amanda shares a unique post-meltdown plan aimed at supporting parents during challenging times. We delve into the idea of creating an environment of radical acceptance and trust, helping parents to move away from traditional notions of a ‘good parent’. Rounding off our conversation, we underscore the essential role of viewing children through their nervous system’s lens and the need to spread awareness about nervous system healing. So, buckle up and get ready for an intense paradigm shift that challenges the conventional norms of parenting. Join us as we embark on this enlightening journey of Low Demand Parenting.

Resources Mentioned on the Podcast

  • Low Demand Parenting- Released July 21, 2023
  • https://us.jkp.com/products/lowdemand-parenting?_pos=1&_sid=b80ccd227&_ss=r
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Find Amanda on Instagram: @LowDemandAmanda

https://www.amandadiekman.net/

Post Meltdown Plan for Parents on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/p/Ctgv-B1OjtE/

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In this podcast episode, Robyn Gobbel interviews Sarah R. Moore, the author of Peaceful Discipline: Story Teaching, Brain Science & Better Behavior, and founder of Dandelion Seeds Positive Parenting.  Sarah was working a corporate job when as a new mom, a conversation with a pediatrician who discouraged her from responding to her baby’s cries ignited a fire in her to research and understand the importance of responsive parenting. This experience led her to empower parents and caregivers by providing evidence-based information and support.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • The basics of conscious parenting
  • The importance of curiosity and grace 
  • Sarah’s HUG process (Holding reactions, Understanding perspectives, and Granting grace
  • The power of story teaching

Resources mentioned in this podcast:

Sarah’s book: Peaceful Discipline: Story Teaching, Brain Science & Better Behavior
Website: https://dandelion-seeds.com/

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The Unlikely Meeting

Marna met Robyn at the Rising Tide Conference. Despite having read about Marna in Marti Smith’s book, meeting Marna in person and experiencing the Capeable product firsthand led Robyn to see the depth of Marna’s commitment to her creation. The encounter marked the beginning of a lovely friendship and a deeper understanding of the impact Capeable could have.

Creating Capeable: A Labor of Love

Marna’s passion for her product comes from her personal experience dealing with the challenges of baffling, hard behaviors. The need to educate others on the neurobiology of trauma, attachment issues, and how weighted products could offer a safe, connecting, and regulating solution led Marna to design Capeable. She transformed the existing concept of weighted products, which seemed restrictive and controlling, into something respectful and beneficial.

Becoming a Manufacturer: The Unexpected Twist

Marna, a mom and sewing enthusiast, found herself building a manufacturing company to bring Capeable to more families. Her journey started with a simple idea, influenced by Dr. Temple Grandin’s work on sensory processing, to make a wearable product for her daughter. She crafted a weight distribution design that offered compression and deep touch, effectively giving a ‘hug’ while standing up. The occupational therapist who first saw the creation instantly recognized its potential, setting Marna on a path to expand her reach.

The Real-Life Impact: Millie’s Experience

The defining moment came when Marna’s daughter, Millie, wore her pink Capeable cape during a shopping trip. What usually turned into a distressing experience transformed into a peaceful outing. The Capeable cape helped Millie navigate through the sensory overload, marking a significant improvement in her quality of life. This experience solidified Marna’s belief in the transformative power of Capeable weighted products.

The Science Behind the Weight

Capeable’s products are differentiated by an innovative approach that focuses on how weight can stimulate and sustain contact with nerves. These products were born out of rigorous research on Polyvagal Theory, Dr. Steven Porges, Dr. Bruce Perry’s work, and others.

About 30 years ago, weighted products were introduced in the mental health community as an alternative to physical restraints for patients with severe behaviors. However, the weight became a form of restraint in itself when too much was applied. This misstep laid the foundation for a safer formula for weighted products, which was 10 to 15% of a person’s body weight plus a pound or two. This calculation originated from pediatric spinal health guidelines for carrying backpacks.

The Transition: From Weight to Nerve Activation

In the 90s, Dr. Temple Grandin’s research on deep touch pressure shifted the conversation from total weight to sensory experiences. This gave rise to SmartWeight-Technology, based on three Cs – conforming to any shape or body size, compressing evenly and gently, and being in constant contact with more nerves. Capeable designed their products with a more even distribution of weight in every two inches of the product to accommodate the body’s curves and maintain constant nerve contact. 

The amount of pressure in each pocket was calibrated based on two-point discrimination – the ability to discern multiple touch points. This refined focus on touch points ensures that the weight stays in constant contact with the body, maximizing the sensory benefits of the products.

Uniting Practicality and Style

Marna became the unlikely architect of these unique weighted products. She intended to simplify the complicated aspects of life, an attribute she attributes to her own ADHD. To her, the product had to be simple, functional, and practical. For instance, the products needed to be machine washable and tumble dryable. The practicality also extended to the product’s design, which needed to be wearable and stylish.

Capeable’s weighted blankets are excellent for nighttime, but Marna recognized the need for a more portable product. Hence, she designed a wearable cape for day-to-day use – perfect for the office, commuting, and even school tests. Ensuring the product’s style was just as crucial as its functionality. Marna wanted her products to blend in, add a pop of color, and not look out of place in any setting.

A Product That Sees You

Robyn concludes their conversation by appreciating how Capeable’s products make people feel seen. Marna’s intention wasn’t just to create a successful business but to ease people’s lives. Her meticulous thought process accounted for various factors that often go overlooked, all in the pursuit of creating a product that is both beneficial and inclusive. In this endeavor, Marna managed to successfully craft a product line that brings comfort to many while maintaining a sense of style and practicality.

Conclusion: More Than Just a Product

Capeable is more than just a product – it’s a testament to the power of love, determination, and innovation. From the heart of a dedicated mom to the homes of families across the globe, Capeable continues to offer a unique solution for those dealing with trauma and sensory overload, touching lives in profound ways. Marna’s journey serves as an inspiration to all those who seek to make a positive change in their own and others’ lives.

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