All behavior makes sense and no behavior is maladaptive- in the moment that behavior emerges.

Of course, the IMPACT of the behavior might be maladaptive and absolutely many behaviors need to change.

But understanding that all behavior makes perfect sense at the moment it emerges is the lynchpin in offering folks co-regulation, connection, and felt-safety.

In this episode, you’ll learn

  • How all brains create reality
  • The brain’s most important job
  • The most effective path to take if you want to see behavior change

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Robyn

Author of National Best Selling Book (including audiobook) Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors: Brain-Body-Sensory Strategies that Really Work

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    It’s really important to me and my team that you have all the information you might need when making the decision to join The Club- or not.

    The Club is open for new members now, October 1-8, 2024, and I recorded this episode based on some of the most commonly asked questions

    In this episode, you’ll learn

    • What The Club even is and why it’s different than other parenting communities
    • What’s included in your Club membership (so much!)
    • How easy it is to access and participate in The Club
    • How easy it is to step away from The Club whenever you’re ready

    Listen on the Podcast

    This blog is a short summary of a longer episode on The Baffling Behavior Show podcast.

    Find The Baffling Behavior Show podcast on Apple Podcast, Google, Spotify, or in your favorite podcast app.

    Or, you can read the entire transcript of the episode by scrolling down and clicking ‘transcript.’

    Robyn

    Author of National Best Selling Book (including audiobook) Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors: Brain-Body-Sensory Strategies that Really Work

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      Whiplash. You probably know what I mean. You start to be lulled into a life with fewer meltdowns, or less intensity. Then BOOM. An old behavior seems to explode out of nowhere. 

      You’re right back to feeling like everything’s awful or it’ll never get better or you’ll have to live like this forever. 

      You might even be frustrated with yourself that you let yourself ‘relax.’

      All of these experiences are completely normal for folks who love someone with a chronic condition that occasionally flares- which is what a vulnerable nervous system is.

      In this episode, you’ll learn

      • The whiplash and why we feel it
      • Why our kids seem to attack outta nowhere
      • Why these moments feel like everything is as bad as ever- but it probably isn’t
      • Why it’s GOOD we can finally rest, even if it does leave us feeling unprotected and whiplashed

      Listen on the Podcast

      This blog is a short summary of a longer episode on The Baffling Behavior Show podcast.

      Find The Baffling Behavior Show podcast on Apple Podcast, Google, Spotify, or in your favorite podcast app.

      Or, you can read the entire transcript of the episode by scrolling down and clicking ‘transcript.’

      Robyn

      Author of National Best Selling Book (including audiobook) Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors: Brain-Body-Sensory Strategies that Really Work

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