Helping Kids with Medical Trauma with Rose LaPiere {EP 214}


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Medical trauma can feel confusing because in many circumstances, we are seeking out the very medical interventions that our kids experience as traumatic. 

Trauma is in the eye of the beholder. Some kids experience trauma due to their time in the NICU. Some kids experience trauma at the dentist. Some kids experience trauma due to an emergency or accident. 

Much of the time, parents feel helpless or even guilty for ‘causing’ the trauma. 

In this episode, you’ll learn

  • How medical treatment can have a traumatic impact
  • How to help kids make sense of confusing medical treatment
  • A couple of ideas for how to help kids prepare for medical treatment

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    Resentment & Parenting {EP 213}


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    Resentment. We’ve all felt it.

    Very little about this parenting journey has gone according to plan.

    We’ve done the hard work- the never-ending work actually – of rewiring everything we thought we knew about behavior, what it means to be human, how to parent, and how to have a family.

    Some days we do it without a second thought.

    Some days are full of resentment and anger.

    You aren’t a bad person. But resentment feels bad! 

    In this episode, you’ll learn

    • The very important job that resentment does for you
    • A message that resentment might be trying to tell you
    • The importance of staying curious – and not shaming – about the feeling of resentment

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      Are We Just Rewarding Bad Behavior? {EP 212}


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      One of the harder things to navigate when shifting to a nervous system lens on behavior is the feeling that a lot of the strategies seem like they are rewarding bad behavior.

      Strategies that invite regulation, connection, and felt safety are usually strategies that feel good.

      If our kids feel good after bad behavior, will they have MORE bad behavior??

      In this episode, you’ll learn

      • What it might be signaling if you’re wondering if you’re rewarding bad behavior
      • How to avoid unintentionally increasing the likelihood of dysregulation in the future
      • Why it’s reallllllly important to offer connection, co-regulation and felt safety strategies when you are in connection mode

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        Hard? Too Hard? For PARENTS! {EP 211}


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        We talk a lot about hard very too hard for your kids (thanks Amanda Diekman for that hard vs. too hard language!).

        But have you considered applying that concept to yourself? 

        This is intensive parenting! Far beyond when parenting is supposed to get less intensive, you’re still giving super-hero level scaffolding, supervision and co-regulation – and it’s a LOT!

        In this episode, you’ll learn

        • How to assess for when it’s just TOO hard- for YOU!
        • The importance of making an owl-brain decision about things being too hard (or not)
        • Ways to increase support at the same time as you lower demands for yourself 

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        Robyn

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